This question was presented before me from a fellow friend a few weeks ago. I realised that such a question, however brief it may seem, yielded so much depth. Upon trying to answer within a few minutes or so, I came up with only three or four things. Over the past few weeks, I have met a few new people and gotten to know them to the sense of an acquaintance. Having come across new particular personality traits, it brought me back to this question. And having walked around the city noticing women with different styles of fashion, again, brought me back to this question.
Let's say that the gender of women could be
broken up into two different groups; the girly-girls and the tomboys.
These two groups are different in a few forms. They have different
styles of fashion, different personalities and have different
likes/dislikes. Of course, I like a girl with a girly-girl fashion
style. It's attractive. And personally, I wouldn't mind a girl who
dressed up in sneakers or chucks, with trousers of some sort, and some
random top. Some of you may have seen this look before. I like to refer
to it as the female hip-hop dancer look. Sure, it may be a bit on the
tomboyish side but I have a strange attraction towards that look.
around the city a few weeks ago, I also came across a certain look that I've
never seen before. A woman, in her twenties - she was really cute,
though it was her fashion that caught my eyes. She was wearing a floral
dress with heels and was rocking a Beats Headset. This look honestly
rocked. She had the girly-girl look about her but she topped it off with
the Headset which gave her a street/urban look. I was mesmerised by her
for a good 10 seconds. If my girl could look as good and unique as she
did, I would love it.
One of my favourite things in life are
video games. Me? I'm a hardcore gamer. I love all types of games and
play them whenever I get the chance. And I do rage at my games every now
and then. My dream/perfect girl would definitely have to be a gamer.
And if she raged at games from time to time like I did, it would be so
much more attractive. I've always dreamed of playing a game and having
my girl sit in my lap watching me game.
All I would ever want from
my girl is for her to be there. I would want her to feel the same way
about me. And in saying that, I'd prefer it if she didn't focus on
monetary symbols of affection. Sure I would get her a gift every now and
then, but not all the time. Presence is better than presents. Just
spending time with her will make me happy. And when it comes to talking,
she has to be able to hold her end of the conversation. Intellect is
sexy. If she can hold a topic of high intellect, she's more attractive
in my eyes.
Whenever I'm at home, whether I'm gaming or not, I'm
usually in a Skype call with my mates. Sometimes I'm in a Skype call
with them for more than 8 hours. I'd want my girl to be somewhat like
this - There on Skype talking with me on a regular basis. And if she
wanted to video call, that's fine with me.
I know I've talked
about a lot already, and I haven't quite gone through everything yet.
Perhaps I'll come back to this in a future post. But just to
finish it off, I want to be able to trust my girl. I know there would be
other guys talking to her and I have to be able to trust her to stay
loyal to me.